Hello. I write about the Domestic Violence Industrial Complex, aka the DVIC, and I just found your website. It looks like you have one of those women who has kids for profit, aka Baby Farming, and her and the DVIC and its police//court sytems have sort of disrupted your life.
Ok so Patrick wanted to make her life miserable via this website because she withheld the son from him. Isn’t the son close to being an adult now and can make decisions for himself so then why this website? I’m so confused.
But you need to consider, that just after my arrest in 2016, Desiree completely cut off all contact between him and I. I tried, repeatedly, to contact him at the only number I had – his/Desiree’s home number – and Desiree promptly contacted the RCMP, claiming I was attempting to violate the “no contact” order by calling HER. She then had her number blocked by the jail so I wasn’t able to call it anymore. Also, James Pendleton stated, in his interview with the RCMP on 2016-07-13 (at line 633), that he had cut off all communication between me and my son. I’ve written him, but I’m confident Desiree and James did not give him the letters. In addition, Desiree and James also cut off all his contact with every other person who had been in his life prior to 2011 when Desiree began all her attacks on us (yes, I do mean “attacks” – she’s the one that came to LA in 2011 and tried to abduct him to another state, she’s the one that pursued a deliberate effort to have me arrested and deported from the US based on false allegations so she could gain custody, she’s the one that refused to allow him to visit me after I was deported, she’s the one that gradually cut off our contact, she’s the one that committed over 100 instances of perjury at my criminal harassment trial, she’s the one that went on the news media falsely claiming to believe I would go to Arizona and murder her).
So, you have Desiree and James telling him I’m a bad person on one side, then you have all that biased, one sided news coverage on the other. I can understand how he would start to believe it.
Since I’ve been out of custody, I’ve tried to locate him, but I haven’t had any luck so far. He’s changed his name. I’ve heard that he’s in university now. If he doesn’t want me in his life I would respect that – even if it’s based on lies and manipulation by Desiree, the Vancouver justice system, and the Canadian news media. I only hope he’s doing well, pursuing his goals, and is happy. I only want him to have a good life, even if that life doesn’t include me.
So yes, if he was interested in being in contact with me he knows where to reach me – an email address is at the bottom of every page of this website. And yes, he has not contacted me since May 2016. But that’s his choice and I accept it, just like keeping this website online is my choice and I accept whatever consequences that brings.
You landed in Vancouver and could have had a good career there: clean credit history and a six figure salary in a pretty nice city. When your son became an adult you could have sponsored him to move there and have dual citizenship. He sounds pretty bright. He could have attended UBC at relatively low cost and have had permanent health care coverage to care for issues his mom caused him when she was pregnant.
Have you considered changing your name, dropping the website, and setting forth on a path toward redemption. Your success will be/would have been the best revenge against your unstable ex. Fear leads to anger, anger leads to hate, hate leads to suffering
So when a lady falsely accuses a man of harassment it’s best to collect the police statements and video interview, if any? Canadian women like to lie to be honest.
It’s best to wear a body cam at all times when dealing with women (especially an ex spouse). Women lie much more then men and peer reviewed literature have proven so. But women also cry more then men and are thus more sympathetic to idiot judges and idiot police in the legal system.
I felt sick to my stomach listening to that recording. And all those people who jump to her defence — extraordinary.
Hello. I write about the Domestic Violence Industrial Complex, aka the DVIC, and I just found your website. It looks like you have one of those women who has kids for profit, aka Baby Farming, and her and the DVIC and its police//court sytems have sort of disrupted your life.
Is that a fair assessment?
If so, I would like to interview you.
Please contact me at [hidden]
Good for you. You could be describing my piece of shit “mother” who shares so many similarities with this asshole.
Ok so Patrick wanted to make her life miserable via this website because she withheld the son from him. Isn’t the son close to being an adult now and can make decisions for himself so then why this website? I’m so confused.
Yes, my son is now an adult.
But you need to consider, that just after my arrest in 2016, Desiree completely cut off all contact between him and I. I tried, repeatedly, to contact him at the only number I had – his/Desiree’s home number – and Desiree promptly contacted the RCMP, claiming I was attempting to violate the “no contact” order by calling HER. She then had her number blocked by the jail so I wasn’t able to call it anymore. Also, James Pendleton stated, in his interview with the RCMP on 2016-07-13 (at line 633), that he had cut off all communication between me and my son. I’ve written him, but I’m confident Desiree and James did not give him the letters. In addition, Desiree and James also cut off all his contact with every other person who had been in his life prior to 2011 when Desiree began all her attacks on us (yes, I do mean “attacks” – she’s the one that came to LA in 2011 and tried to abduct him to another state, she’s the one that pursued a deliberate effort to have me arrested and deported from the US based on false allegations so she could gain custody, she’s the one that refused to allow him to visit me after I was deported, she’s the one that gradually cut off our contact, she’s the one that committed over 100 instances of perjury at my criminal harassment trial, she’s the one that went on the news media falsely claiming to believe I would go to Arizona and murder her).
So, you have Desiree and James telling him I’m a bad person on one side, then you have all that biased, one sided news coverage on the other. I can understand how he would start to believe it.
Since I’ve been out of custody, I’ve tried to locate him, but I haven’t had any luck so far. He’s changed his name. I’ve heard that he’s in university now. If he doesn’t want me in his life I would respect that – even if it’s based on lies and manipulation by Desiree, the Vancouver justice system, and the Canadian news media. I only hope he’s doing well, pursuing his goals, and is happy. I only want him to have a good life, even if that life doesn’t include me.
So yes, if he was interested in being in contact with me he knows where to reach me – an email address is at the bottom of every page of this website. And yes, he has not contacted me since May 2016. But that’s his choice and I accept it, just like keeping this website online is my choice and I accept whatever consequences that brings.
Ughh. This is all quite tragic.
You landed in Vancouver and could have had a good career there: clean credit history and a six figure salary in a pretty nice city. When your son became an adult you could have sponsored him to move there and have dual citizenship. He sounds pretty bright. He could have attended UBC at relatively low cost and have had permanent health care coverage to care for issues his mom caused him when she was pregnant.
Have you considered changing your name, dropping the website, and setting forth on a path toward redemption. Your success will be/would have been the best revenge against your unstable ex. Fear leads to anger, anger leads to hate, hate leads to suffering
You didn’t answer the key question, why are you still doing this?
So when a lady falsely accuses a man of harassment it’s best to collect the police statements and video interview, if any? Canadian women like to lie to be honest.
It’s best to wear a body cam at all times when dealing with women (especially an ex spouse). Women lie much more then men and peer reviewed literature have proven so. But women also cry more then men and are thus more sympathetic to idiot judges and idiot police in the legal system.
bro get over urself 😂